queen pong

yes why lose a friendship over love?

both of them are at fault. he shldnt have insisted and she shldnt have been so passive.

it is not as if he was not warned about it. he was told not to continue pursuing in whatever manner but he kept trying. yeah it was not bad, it showed that he was determined, sincere and brave and willing to push aside any pride and whatever stuff but not everything will succeed if you kept prevailing.

no, not in this case.

umpteen times, both had the same conversations the same arguments but things wasnt working out right. i'm not sure, but i feel that if the girl you are pursuing isnt being responsive and had made known to you that you shld stop and take things slowly, you really shld just stop. there's great advantage in this coz firstly, you dont spoil the friendship and secondly you let everything start afresh and you might get the girl to be interested along the way. that guy doesnt get very disadvantaged right? the reasons why the girl could be acting this way are that she is not interested in the guy at all (i.e. he is not what she is looking for) or she is scared of spoiling the friendship and hope to be just good friends or both. in this case, its both. she didnt hide any feelings from him and had made very clear from the start.

but if he kept doing things the girl doesnt like, then he is just going to make things worse. it is not as if he didnt know. yes he was told many times!!!

seriously, it is not as if what he considered as simple and essential acts of pursuing a girl (giving gifts, sending her home [arrhh cut the crap]) will win the girl over in any way. because in the first place, the girl doesnt have any tiny bit of interest at all. the more you do such stuff the more irritating he's gonna get. it may have worked for some other girls, but maybe this girl is just damn special. if he dont have what it takes inside to make the girl interested in him then i dont think sincerity/money would work too. Talking about sincerity, if he is really sincere about that girl, give her her breathing space. i mean yes, simple acts can still be done, but somehow this girl just doesnt want him to do it and yes yes yes, he was told.

seriously, sometimes these acts can frighten the girl.

oh and you know what, if you are pursuing a girl, and you did claimed that you become a nerve-wreck in front of her and cant strike up a conversation and hold on to her attention, THEN, how are you gonna make her interested in you! by being a wreck in front of the girl is a major turn-off. you've got to be confident!

the girl couldnt face the guy like the rest of her friends but was the guy able to face her like the rest of his friends??? well, to be honest, the girl is more jovial than the guy, prob i shld say, less quiet. so think abt it, who is gonna dull the situation more??

Shu Ping babbled at 1:02 am